(Anyone who reads this blog knows that we feel ALL evil, violence, lies, and deception are wrong. I have no time prioritized to respond to lengthy convoluted diatribes filled with incorrect perceptions, deliberate misquoting, and little barking insults. People hear what they want to hear and disregard the rest.
I am thinking about the comment, left yesterday--
And I'm wondering this: Why so childish?
That is, why put an insult in the first sentence, and then stop any conversation or hope of communication with the second sentence? The second sentence actually shows the agenda-as if-"nothing you can say matters to me- my mind is closed- so don't try to speak"-- And as i read the actual blogsite (on an issue which surely needs good, educational, informational, advocating assistance) this is apparently true.
Why is the speech and writing of these folks filled with so much HATE? (It is ironic that they are apparently angry not just at their false accuser but at women who in the past were radically "angry at men for committing so much rape".)
Now, I have never been a GROUP HATER-- that is, i don't know if it was the way i was raised or a biological/personality sort of thing, but as much as i deplore (and get sick over) the crimes of violence against women, children, and men, i have not found myself Hating Men (the usual perpetrators). And by the way, the Primary Source of violence against men is also from Men.
But on this False Accu Site i find that
1) they are mad at and poke fun with degrading and insulting language: women, those who criminally accused them, feminists, those suspected of being evil, etc.(--all are lumped together--and they apparently up-front Assume all women dealing with "the Issue" are radical haters-)- for supposedly being man haters due to the general issue of rape. (BTW_ they seem--nonsensically-- to instantly despise anyone who is an Advocate for victims of violence, never mind the fact that we help both men and women here.)
2) BUT! Then they take up that mantle and decide to MODELthat behavior; that is, to become radical women-haters because a small percentage of women have wronged them in an egregious, hideous way.
3.they then expand the hatred to anyone who works to alleviate the circles of pain caused by sexual assault.
Sadly, I am sure there is a need for a good supportive, truthful, educational site about false accusations. Too bad this one is so draped and saturated with anger, bitterness, and bile. I guess most groups have to go through, like an immature child, the tantrums of Justice Denied. It is hard to stay honorable, peacefilled, grown-up and loving after being attacked, isn't it? Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. had to plead with his followers NOT to use violence and hate. "Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
In fact, i have been struck by how many women forgive and move past the horrible crimes committed against them...
and let me restate:
-- the reason false reports --rare as they are--are so HORRIBLE is that the CRIME is so horrible. (No one really cares if they are falsely accused of littering.)
I feel sorrow for all humans (and animals) hurt by other humans. Those who react by nurturing hatred and are now filled with deep bitterness are ruining their own lives by not keeping a good spirit. I know that rape victms over the years, the generations, the various countries, felt the frustration that those falsely accused must feel- frustration that the TRUTH is being denied. That Justice is delayed. Yes. That is a TERRIBLE cross to bear.
"Everything is OK in the end-- if everything is not OK, it is not the end." "The Mills of God grind exceedingly slow, but they grind exceedingly fine." "Where justice is denied, where poverty is enforced, where ignorance prevails, and where any one class is made to feel that society is in an organized conspiracy to oppress, rob, and degrade them, neither persons nor property will be safe." Frederick Douglass "O righteous God, who searches minds and hearts, bring to an end the violence of the wicked and make the righteous secure." -Psalm 7:9 "[The LORD] mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble." -Proverbs 3:34
He who decides a case without hearing the other side, though he decide justly, cannot be considered just. - Seneca (Lucius Annaeus Seneca)