Dogs and New Loves (A woman needs a dog)

A college girl, in particular, needs a dog, not a boyfriend (for the first four years)--Trust me. Make a list of what you want from your boyfriend. Think you will get that from a college boy?

[Love, Reign O'er Me listen ]

  A girl needs a dog, not a boyfriend. A woman needs a dog, not a boyfriend

I do not think [on the whole] young women coming to college want a boyfriend.

Many think they do.

They yearn for one.

In therapy, or behind the Bar, i hear in city after city

the strange nontruth; as soon as i have a boyfriend, things will be fine. 

They have not reached the place in their own lives where they are happy, comfortable,

knowing a little sonsinsumsin about themselves.

Eyes still almost closed, like a three week old kitten. They alter their behavior, forget first loves (family, playing, excelling), change their standards (imagine if their new female acquaintances acted with the boorishness of the new males (which they suffer gladly)-the females would never reach "friend" status)

and spend

spend

spend time and money and effort ...yada yada

What so many of these young women want is

One who will put her First.

One who will think of her First thing every morning, Last thing every night.
One who Adores Her, only Her.
One who is actually Not happy unless she is near.

Because that is how She Is.

That is what she does.

That is how she feels toward the object of her affection

(used to Great malevolent/benefit by the wolf in sheeps clothing,

who knows and sees this clearly)

My friends,

What she wants is a Dog.

And, what she actually needs is a Dog as well.

A young woman

leaving home to work or college

 needs a dog.

One who will put her First.

One who will think of her first thing every morning, last thing every night.

One who Adores Her, only Her.

One who is actually Not happy unless she is near.
One who would follow her to the ends of the earth, and beyond, if she only will say, Come!
His heart is yours.
His soul is yours.
His body is in your very hands.
He would die for you in an instant, without thinking.
He will give you Everything he has to give.
Oh, Baby, get a Dog.


The extra deposit will cost you far less than you will spend on frivolities.
and you will have a fabulous bodyguard
To Boot.

Get a Dog

Get a dog.

Kate's Sandy

Dr. Schreoders' Bullpup

First two photos from the calendar:  http://www.calendars.com/Misc-Dogs/Dog-2010-Gallery-Desk-Calendar/prod124435/?categoryId=cat00188

Obviously there are many young women who come to work or university who ae Awake! with goals in mind, who are fine and strong and end-game oriented. You Go Girl! This Post is not for you.

A Woman needs a Dog!